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Saturn square Pluto: 

Having this aspect in your natal chart is an indication of power struggle and that you will be an amazing leader if you learn how to work with this aspect. The power struggle will exist mostly between you and your father cause Saturn represents the father figure, so any figure that was responsible of taking care of you resulted in power struggle. They wanted to be the dominant one or the one who calls the shots and control you but they didn’t expect you would put a fight, when you fight for power you are brutal and ruthless and you feel that there’s a great deal of anger inside you that wants to be free. You will always struggle between being highly disciplined and highly provocative and transitive. You want to destroy everything and start anew but in the same time you are a afraid of transformation and need structure. You will not do well with people who try to be leaders and have power over you cause you want to be in control of your own life and destiny. You may also not like being in a leader position yet you will always end up in leadership positions whether you like it or not. You have to learn to mix discipline with destruction, to create out of chaos and death a new rule or structure that is realistic but in the same time healing to you and other people. With this aspect think of yourself  as someone who is trying to tame the darkness and violence inside you through channeling them into a discipline or structure. You have presence and the confidence to hypnotize people and to take whatever challenges life may hit you with and if the challenges are weak you probably will look at the world in the eye and say “is this all you got?”. You are someone who turned pain and suffering into strength and confidence, you are the type of person people lean on when everything is falling apart cause they can see that you fear nothing as well as you accept death and chaos. You are always a hero in time of pain and hardships so own this aspect and create light out of it that can guide you and others.        

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The 12th House

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The 12th House is often dubbed as the house of the lost, the hidden and the secret. It represents prisons and as such is the house that shows us the things we feel trapped by. It is seen as a shadow house because it hides parts of ourselves from ourselves and others. The 12th House is our subconscious and can also represent the nature of any repressed memories we may have. In this post I’m going to describe the planets in the 12th House and the “lacking” we feel as a result.

Sun in the 12th: These people tend to be easily walked on as they suffer a lack of ego. This is not to say they don’t have an ego, they simply can’t access it as easily as others. They might feel invisible or like they don’t matter or have an impact on others. This being said they have amazing empathy for others.

Moon in the 12th: These people usually feel that their emotions don’t matter or that they’re invalid. They feel things really deeply but are often confused by what they feel. They bury their emotions a lot and aren’t great at confronting them. They’re great at understanding others and their emotions, sometimes better than their own.

Mercury in the 12th: These people tend to daydream a lot and get lost in their own mind. Their thought processes are foggy and they find it hard to make sense of the things their own brain comes up with. They often have very abstract ideas and tend to be quite creative, usually having an emotional understanding of poetry and literature.

Venus in the 12th: People with Venus in the 12th House tend to find it hard to feel or show love. Love is an abstract concept for them and they might find it hard to know where they start and their loved on begins. They are at risk of getting lost in their partner and over extending themselves in efforts to gain more love and affection. They’re very selfless people who do anything for their loved ones. 

Mars in the 12th: Those with Mars in the 12th House may suffer a lot of repressed anger and frustration. They find it hard to express this anger in a safe way and usually have to find themselves a good outlet. Their anger shows itself as passive aggression and hostility. This placement is also one of the many placements that correlate with abuse and bullying. 

Jupiter in the 12th: People with this placement tend to be very compassionate although they are not the best secret keepers. While the 12th House is one that people tend to fear, Jupiter being placed here can provide some light and protection from potential hidden enemies. They are very altruistic but must be careful not to overextend themselves to the point of martyrdom.

Saturn in the 12th: This is possibly one of the most difficult placements to have as a person can isolate themselves to the point of depression out of fear. They tend to have a lot of worries and fears and as a result they may have an aversion to accessing their own subconscious feelings. These people must learn to keep an open mind towards overcoming their fears.

Uranus in the 12th: People with this placement tend to feel alienated in early life due to unique and unusual personalities. They may feel suppressed as they get older and become afraid to embrace their individuality. Unstable sleeping patterns and vivid dreams are quite common for these people and they have the ability to conceive bizarre thoughts better than most.

Neptune in the 12th: As Neptune is at home in the 12th House, this placement is possibly the least afflicted. These people are blessed with intuition and many psychic like abilities. They are very empathic people but if Neptune is harshly aspected, they may find themselves falling into deception and illusion easily.

Pluto in the 12th: Pluto being placed here indicates a very intense life. Pluto correlates with trauma in the house it’s placed, placed here can indicate a difficult birth. They also tend to hold a lot of secrets, sometimes to do with their sexuality or their desires. They may have psychological wounds from childhood and if Pluto is adversely aspected, they may have experienced sexual assault. 

Chiron in the 12th: Those with this placement may be subject to a lot of phobias and fears. They have issues surrounding their unconscious and repressed memories. They tend to soak up other’s emotions and must be careful with letting others drain the life out of them. 

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venus signs in love (libra-pisces)

[oceanstrology]

venus in libra

how they attract others: venus in libra loves to impress whoever they’re interested in. because they are very charming, flirting is easy for them. sometimes they do it accidentally or just because they want to, even if they aren’t attracted to the person they’re flirting to. no one is better at flirting than a libra venus. when flirting, they show that they are sweet, sensitive, cute, and attentive. they love to tease and partner up in a project with the person they’re trying to pursue. they will also gently touch that person. 

what they want in a relationship: libra venus wants someone who will treat others fairly. they want their partner to try and fix any issues that may be present in the relationship. they love partnership and dates where they are alone with their partner. though they love one-on-one companionship, venus in libra men and women will still want to socialize with many people, bringing his/her partner along. they love the idea of love and want a relationship that can be viewed by others as “goals”. they want a relationship with romance, both joking around and being serious, adventure and devotion. they want the relationship to have intellectually simulating conversations.

how they act in a relationship: every venus in libra person is fair. they put lots of effort into the relationship. they can be sensitive and sometimes accidentally start acting more like the person they think their partner wants them to be. they are clingy and always try to compromise. libra venus falls in love easily and sometimes it’s not with the right person. because they love the idea of love, they can forget about how the relationship is in reality and focus on what it looks like from the outside instead.

how the relationship can end: libra venus needs to be treated like a king or queen. they want to feel loved and like they impress their partner. it’s easy for them to fall in love, so they might start slipping into that with someone else if the relationship isn’t 100% perfect. because every libra venus is so in love with the idea of love, they will ignore some problems to keep the relationship “happy”. this can make it easy to take advantage of them. they will notice, but not say anything. after a while though, it will tear the relationship apart. 

venus in scorpio

how they attract others: scorpio venus men and women don’t even need to directly flirt. there is simply something magnetic about them. they seduce more than they flirt. they are capable of seducing people accidentally, but when they do it on purpose, it almost always works instantly. they have a mysterious and powerful personality that they use to attract others.

what they want in a relationship: scorpio venus wants a strong, committed relationship. they want the relationship to last long. they want to have power in the relationship, even too much. scorpio venus wants someone who doesn’t run away from commitment, emotions, or intensity. they want a partner that is loyal and will be extremely focused on the relationship. scorpio venus loves a passionate relationship. they want to know everything about their partner.

how they act in a relationship: the partner of a scorpio venus receives tons of attention. scorpio venus is the definition of emotional intensity. they can get very jealous and are good at manipulation. they love to be very close to their partner, “staying in” dates are their favorite. because scorpio venus is so focused on his/her partner, showing off the relationship doesn’t matter to them. they don’t even think about showing off their partner. when they’ve been hurt, it’s obvious and difficult to earn their forgiveness. venus in scorpio people are not afraid to address any issues. they are romantic and sensual. they love physical affection.

how the relationship can end: if the scorpio venus does not feel like there is equal commitment in the relationship, it will be over. the scorpio venus’ partner needs to be dedicated to the relationship. if the partner is closed off or feels threatened when analyzed, the relationship won’t work out. when a scorpio venus is hurt, they take a while to get over it. so if there is too much drama in the relationship and if the scorpio venus’ partner is insensitive, it will not work out. it will also scar the two.

venus in sagittarius

how they attract others: when trying to pursue someone, sagittarius venus likes to befriend that someone and talk to them constantly. they show that they are adventurous, interested in many things, funny, and intelligent. they are able to be both care-free and philosophical. this mixture makes people very attracted to them. sagittarius venus may act more “free-spirited” than usual when flirting. they act clumsy and show off their very optimistic attitude. they show that a relationship with them is a “best friend” relationship.

what they want in a relationship: sagittarius venus wants to learn new things. when dating someone, they include their partner in this exploration. they want their partner to help them gain new experiences. they want a partner who will take interest in their beliefs, opinions, and goals. sagittarius venus loves freedom. they want a relationship that doesn’t have too much planning. they want to just have fun with their partner whenever they want. and when they do plan, they usually bail because that’s just not what they want to do at the time. a sagittarius venus person would love to have a partner that is intellectually simulating.

how they act in a relationship: a sagittarius venus doesn’t like commitment. they love to include their partner in their adventures. they might try and ignore any problems that there are in the relationship because problems just aren’t important to them- having fun is. they tend to leave when it gets too rough. it is noticeable when they are upset. they are blunt, social, entertaining, optimistic and wise. 

how the relationship can end: when the relationship doesn’t have much adventure or spontaneity, the sagittarius venus is unhappy. they will likely end the relationship because their happiness is incredibly important. they don’t want to feel too tied down so discussions about the future of the relationship can drive them away. because they are so optimistic, they are incompatible with pessimists. if the partner of the sagittarius venus shies away from intellectual conversations, learning, or deep thinking, the two are incompatible. if the partner notices every flaw in the relationship and constantly brings them up, the relationship will not work out.

venus in capricorn

how they attract others: venus in capricorn attracts others with their reputation. this can mean their job, social standing, or wealth. they don’t brag about it, they just make sure it’s mentioned once and leave it at that. anyone can easily see their responsible, mature and hardworking self. they use their wit when flirting. people end up very curious about the capricorn venus because of how “loner-ish” they are.

what they want in a relationship: capricorn venus is picky. they like to be certain of who they are dating. they are attracted to someone who is hard-working, mature, ambitious and goal-oriented. they want to feel safe in the relationship, so predictability is a must. they want a committed relationship. they also want the relationship to be very calm and peaceful.

how they act in a relationship: once a capricorn venus feels safe in a relationship, romance rises. even though they don’t seem like it, they can be very romantic. they just don’t show it in an extravagant way. they’re quieter about it, and the romance can be shown in small but very meaningful gestures. they love to learn about their partner and help their partner succeed. sometimes they aren’t very expressive about their love, especially not in public. it’s not because they’re embarrassed, it’s just that they simply don’t think about it. they are very dependable. 

how the relationship can end: capricorn venus doesn’t like dating someone who is unmotivated. this can turn them off. if their partner is unpredictable, loves activity and loves change than the two aren’t compatible. capricorn venus doesn’t like being pressured into doing things. they need to be comfortable. if the relationship has too much drama or fighting, capricorn venus won’t hesitate to end it. of course they’ll try and fix problems, but if they don’t get fixed, the relationship is over. they’d rather be focused on work or goals instead of relationship drama.

venus in aquarius

how they attract others: aquarius venus acts more quirky than usual when flirting. they like to seem more original than others, often talking about being rebellious. they make it known that they are free-spirited and encourage the person they’re interested in to just be however they want to be. aquarius venus loves to discuss their opinions and views on the world when trying to pursue someone.

what they want in a relationship: aquarius venus is attracted to “unconventional” relationships. they don’t want a traditional relationship. they don’t want a relationship that makes them feel tied down. they’d rather roam freely. they want their partner to be smart and intuitive, and they want to be recognized for their own brains an intuition as well. they want to be with someone who will join them in advocating for fairness. aquarius venus loves intellectual conversations and wants the relationship to have plenty. 

how they act in a relationship: venus in aquarius people never stop trying to impress their partner. they treat their partner like a best friend. they love to include their partner in adventures and share all of their thoughts with them. they love to be artistic with the person they’re dating. they are curious about their partner’s opinions and interests. rather than following the typical structure of a relationship, aquarius venus wants to redefine it. they may even start some new strange but fun traditions for their relationship. they are open to fixing problems in the relationship, but not if it’s gonna take away their freedom. they are quite emotionally detached. they want their partner to join them in dreaming and fantasizing about the world. aquarius venus loves to exchange knowledge with the person they’re dating. they don’t like to commit and will run away from talking about relationship issues.

how the relationship can end: every aquarius venus needs a partner that will have similar interests. if the two have nothing in common, the aquarius venus will feel discouraged. if they date someone that is very clingy and emotional, the two will not work out. aquarius venus needs to feel like he/she has freedom. trying to control them or constantly protect them does nothing but damage the relationship. the relationship needs to be fun, productive, active, and have tons of intellectual simulation. if not, then the aquarius venus won’t be happy and will most likely end it.

venus in pisces

how they attract others: pisces venus flirts playfully. they try to appear cute, playful, childlike and sweet. they’re very good at it. when flirting, the person they’re trying to pursue will immediately think of them as a very fun, loving person. they have an alluring look in their eyes that is very hard to resist. they make sure to offer help as much as they can to the person they’re interested in.

what they want in a relationship: pisces venus wants a romantic relationship. they want creativity and they want security. they want to feel needed and be appreciated for everything they do to help. the relationship a pisces venus has in mind is very peaceful. they want to be with someone who is sentimental and gentle. it’s very important to a pisces venus that the relationship is secure. they want to make sure that their partner loves them unconditionally. they love dates like painting, small “photoshoots” or going to the beach. they won’t flaunt the relationship around, but they do want other people to know how happy it is.

how they act in a relationship: a pisces venus person can be very sensitive. they look deep into their partner and fall in love with what’s inside. they don’t care what other people think about the relationship. because they try to be as sweet as possible, they bend the truth a little bit just to keep their partner happy. they are humorous and enjoy physical affection. it’s hard for them to commit. they love to try new things. overall, they want their partner to be happy, so it’s hard for them to say no. this can cause them to be taken advantage of. they are great at listening and don’t hesitate to help anyone out. they can be pretty moody.

how the relationship can end: when someone is very closed off, the pisces venus will try as hard as they can to open them up, but this might just make them seem invasive. this relationship won’t work out. because it’s difficult for them to commit, their partner will be unhappy if he/she is 100% committed. it’s easy for a partner to be jealous of attention and care the pisces venus gives other people. pisces venus just care about everyone’s happiness, not only their partner’s. they aren’t very reliable so this can bring up some issues in the relationship. pisces venus is sensitive, so it’s easy to hurt them or take advantage of them sometimes. this can go on for a while, but in the end, it’ll just end up hurting both the pisces venus and the partner. 

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the venus signs

[meowastrology]

venus in aries: childlike and playful in love, the kind of person who gently teases their lover.  very passionate.  every time feels like the first time.

venus in taurus: the way to their heart really is through their stomach.  take care of them, let them relax, and give them sustenance in some way or another, and they’re yours.  very loyal!

venus in gemini:  very communicative.  these people will tell you they love you, and they may do it in obscure or intellectual ways, but as long as you can keep up you have a partner for life.  

venus in cancer:  so emotional!  this is the kind of person who will fall in love hard and fast, and will probably love you forever.

venus in leo:  this person wants so much to be loved and adored.  responds very well to compliments about appearance, intellect…literally anything.

venus in virgo:  the kind of person who somehow makes romance practical.  if they’re not into you, they’ll stop talking to you completely - they don’t have the time or patience for games.  if they love you, though, they will do anything for you.

venus in libra:  their love will be an act of give-and-take.  if you’re beautiful, they’ll be all over you, even if it’s not practical in the long run.  they’ll do anything to make it work, almost to a fault.

venus in scorpio:  an intense and emotional lover, the kind of person who will tell you straight-away that they are in love with you.  if your venuses aren’t compatible, they might scare you away.  they will probably be jealous, but they will definitely be loyal.

venus in sagittarius:  the kind of person that will fall in love quickly but will also move on quickly. they may be hard to pin down - do they love you?  do they want to leave you?  are they gone already?  you might know before they know.

venus in capricorn:  this person doesn’t waste time with casual dating.  they’re either in it or they’re not.  they will probably have a traditional approach to love - buying you flowers, telling you they love you, probably wanting to marry you.  some of the most loyal lovers you can imagine.

venus in aquarius:  has a nonconventional approach to love.  this person will probably be experimental, possibly seeming detached at times, although that doesn’t mean they can’t commit if they really want to.  if you share their high ideals, they’re yours.

venus in pisces:  falls hard when they do, but it takes a lot of thinking and praying on their part.  they will look deep within themselves to figure out if they actually love you, but if they really do, it’s Fate.

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*~Venus Signs~*

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Venus in Aries: Men with this placement are attracted to feisty, sassy, passionate women. They appeal to women by showing their boldness. Secretly, they want a woman to get on top and ride them! Women with Venus in Aries like to dominate a man, express sass, and they are full of va va voom as lovers! She gets herself in trouble as she sometimes speaks with a sharp tongue. She’ll just as easily knock someone down with her attitude, as she’ll stick up for herself without inhibition! Aphrodite carries a flaming torch thru unexplored lands, leading others behind her. Marching bravely, sometimes acting carelessly, she learns lessons the hard way as she assumes she knows what other people will say or how scenarios turn out. She doesn’t often look before she leaps, the vitality within her doesn’t have time to wait and think things thru; this could actually be a virtue in the sense that she can quickly respond to crisis. Acting on impulse propels her to be a go-getter; truth is, we need impulsive people just as much as we value cautious people. The zest in her soul drives her to persist, there’s hardly any joys she will have missed! Her adventurous spirit always finds something to do, in an instant, she rises anew.

Venus in Taurus: Men with this placement value commitment and stability in relationships. Either their lover is entirely committed to them or they don’t want a relationship at all. They savor comfort food and enjoy playing music. Their patience allows her to understand what’s going on before acting. Women with Venus in Taurus are very charming and have the ability to get along with many people because they have a pleasant disposition (unless other items in their chart indicate chaos). People with Venus in Taurus often indulge in sweets! Gee I wonder who raided the cookie jar? ;) Aphrodite basks in the sunlight, surrounded by the tenderness of newly sprouted daisies and newborn animals. Squirrels scurry up a budding tree, lizards saunter at her toes… She picks a fresh pair off the branch, playing a flute as the wind blows… Spring chicks chirp as she stops to smell the roses.

Venus in Gemini: Men with this will try to appeal to women by learning a variety of subjects, they know how to chat a woman into bed ;). They value women with intelligence. Venus in Gemini charms people on by being adaptable. Gaining knowledge is one of the greatest pleasures, as they can use their varied interests to appeal to many different love prospects. Their fickle nature is curious about many types of people that they don’t always know what they want. They can date around with a lighthearted attitude, appreciating people of various walks of life, cohorts, styles, and skillsets. A pleasing voice aids them in their talent of persuasion. Women with a Gemini Venus are curious to get with a variety of men (or women). The duality of Gemini may be inclined to attraction of more than one gender; or even power play, alternating between D/s roles. Kinks, toys, sex positions, and different kinds of sex are treated with an open mind, experimentation is playful! Venus in Gemini is a jester in love, sometimes they treat it like a game and don’t realize they’ve led someone on. They’d rather not be pinned down as they’re a natural flirt. Their intellect tends to be scattered, learning bits of many subjects without mastering any. They struggle with commitment in love or projects, unless other planets indicate otherwise. For the most part, they live to experience all that life has to offer, getting a taste of many flavors of romance, their sex life, food, and various art movements.

Venus in Cancer: The way to their heart is thru a home cooked meal. Their self-esteem is highest when they have a lifestyle that allows them to flow in their rhythms, they are likely not the type who thrive under pressure or like to be challenged, they’d rather experience security where they can allow their inner child to be expressed. Men with a Cancer Venus are attracted to nurturing women who are motherly. They may subconsciously seek women who resemble their mother, or women who heal their mommy issues. Women with Venus in Cancer express their femininity by intuiting how to appeal to others, they aren’t loud and proud with their female expression, more timid and imaginative. If she has honored the divine feminine, by caring for her body the way that feels right to her, she will shimmer with feminine mystique, pulling in men with her tides of alluring womanhood. Aphrodite dives in the dark creepy depths of the sea, unlocking secrets from a treasure chest buried under sand made of crushed up seashells that were formed thousands of years ago. A peek into the past, she yearns to feel the entire ocean in her heart, to swim in memories so vast… She carries an ocean jasper with her, to hold onto a lost love, she’ll never forget. She admires pearls with iridescence, hoping someone will cherish her essence.

Venus in Leo: Women with this can be bold and expressive, excited to pursue creative projects and they experience physical pleasure with vigor. Compliments make her swoon, she’s a well-groomed babe applying makeup oh so artfully. She is so bright and passionate, she can commit (as Leo is a fixed sign) but the fire of spontaneity can also enjoy flirting with someone just one time to validate herself as a bombshell. Men with Venus in Leo are attracted to confident women who are glamorous. They love to stroke a woman’s ego. Aphrodite dolls herself up with rosy cheeks, bright eye shadow, gold sequins contouring her dashing figure, her hairdo gains attention, and she speaks with pride from her juicy lips. She can daringly make out with someone she barely met.

Venus in Virgo: an earthly sensuality that is physically affectionate and turned off by those who brag. Discerning about how they give out their love, they know what they want in a partner and will not settle! They enjoy critiquing art and ideas. Men with a Virgo Venus respect women who value accuracy in the topics they speak of, and a woman who is willing to get down to work. They make a point to be courteous and considerate, as the Virgo archetype cares to put their best foot forward, realizing that you do need to care what others think in order to be a productive person. However, a life of nitty gritty work turns them cynical to the point of picking out the faults of others. The caution of Venus in Virgo is to become aware of one’s own negativity, learning to be more open and tolerant. These people are modest unless certain placements by the sun or Jupiter suggest otherwise. Aphrodite harvests the fruits of the earth for a feast, nourishing their loved ones with all the essential amino acids.

Venus in Libra: A soft sweet romantic who keeps an open mind, interested in others’ opinions. Libra is an ingenue, with many men drawn to her, she doesn’t want to hurt any of their feelings so she may accidentally lead them on! She can find the beauty in everyone, and she may need someone with strong Virgo in their chart to help her determine who is worth her time, and who may not have best intentions. Libra wishes to be the socialite, spending lots of time with many different kinds of friends without realizing how these friends are influencing her/his thoughts. Libra has that way of compromising discernment when it comes to the truth of a situation in order to go along with the viewpoint that is popular among their friends. A Venus in Libra girl will go along with what their man says, she probably likes to be dominated. An evolved Libra gathers a bunch of information, to seek justice and truth instead of what pleases others. Venus in Libra is very persuasive. With his/her friends, someone with Venus in Libra likes to make others feel included, their fair minded disposition brings everyone together with the goal of increasing harmony in this world.

Venus in Scorpio: This woman is daring and intense, she is not easily impressed! Her abilities of discernment and judgement protect her from getting hurt, but when they do get hurt, heartbreak stings them to the core… People with Venus in Scorpio radiate sexuality and like to have a dramatic appearance and attitude. Men with Venus in Scorpio have a dangerous appeal, they’ve explored darkness that many cannot handle and they might even be kinky. There has to be a genuine emotional connection in your relationships or else you’ll feel unfulfilled. Venus in Scorpio has a chaotic love life as they are addicted to feeling a love that shakes them to the bones! Aphrodite dangles spider webs from her fingertips, her skin is pale as she’s been plotting revenge in her cave instead of basking in the light, she brews a potion of hypnosis in her cauldron; whoever drinks it is doomed to fall madly in love with her… She likes knowing she has power over others, she doesn’t care for diplomacy unless if she’s using it to hide her suspicions…

Venus in Sagittarius: You enjoy dates where you’re exploring new territory, whether that be hiking trails, or conversing intriguing topics. You’re wild and adventurous in your love life even if you’re more cautious and sensible in other areas. Taking chances and trying new activities gives you a thrill. You’re curious about foreign cultures and other peoples’ perspectives. Men with Venus in Sagittarius desire women who are spontaneous and open minded, bonus points if she introduces him to new ideas and places. They tend to be loose with their money, as men with a Sagittarius Venus are generous to a fault, and put off by frugality. They’ll get caught up in the passion of the moment, using up too much of an item, to find themselves with none left later on. If someone with Venus in Sagittarius doesn’t have enough earth in their chart, they struggle with being unaware of consequences until the shit hits the fan. Aphrodite sings a prayer with 108 Tulsi beads, banging a gong under a pagoda, blowing a didgeridoo in the outback for dreamtime, hunting for mescalito in the Sonoran desert, trying a tribal dance on the savannah, playing a harp in the Scottish highlands with fairies…

Venus in Capricorn: You indulge in the pure physical sensation of sex and might not get so emotional about it (unless other factors in the chart say otherwise). You value good quality food and a love prospect has to meet certain standards of yours for you to commit to them, otherwise you enjoy entirely physical connections with the opposite sex. These people are cautious about falling in love, as they are hesitant to be tender and vulnerable in relationships. Men with Capricorn Venus value women with sensibility, superb taste in food, music, clothes, and art. They are horrendously turned off by people who are unrealistic, all over the place, impulsive, or assuming. They cannot stand it when people jump to conclusions, they’re “hold your horses” type of people. Aphrodite expresses herself in a classy suit, she may have flair but it is very refined. Her polished presentation of herself sets a respectable impression. It’s not that she never goes wild, but she waits for the correct time to do so. Underneath her self-conscious tendencies is a satyr enjoying themselves in the forest. Someone with Venus in Capricorn can thoroughly savor their connection to the earth, barefoot on the gems and minerals of the dirt, every pressure point of her toes receives the energy of the stones. Playing the pan flute while gaining a tan from sunbeams, eating their grapes one by one, sauntering thru meadows and mountains, having the patience to notice the mathematical beauty of the ferns in the Fibonacci sequence…

Venus in Aquarius: You appeal to others with adorable quirkiness. You may have the capacity to be detached during sex. From a psychological perspective, someone with an Aquarius Venus might have experienced a heartbreak or trauma that caused them to be detached in how they feel about relationships. Rationalizing one’s romantic life reinforces the idea of being in control of their feelings, even though their love life is chaotic. They can categorize lust from romance from lurve from infatuation, yet their feelings could be so erratic and unstable that they fool themselves into thinking they’re more logical when love isn’t meant to be logical. There can be a neurosis in attempting to understand relationship dynamics. A tendency to be kinky will make this person want to experiment with going wild in the bedroom. Unpredictable people hold their attention! They are turned on by people who stimulate their mind. Venus in Aquarius people value the broad spectrum of gender and sexuality, homophobes lose major points with them. Men with an Aquarius Venus are drawn to chatty women who flaunt their intellect and women who aren’t afraid of strange people. Aphrodite skips up the Ethernet cable, connecting humanity if the internet connection is stable. Networking a group together, harmonizing social dynamics for a grand plan. We’re comrades till the end, brainstorming ideas, testing theories, until you unfriend. Spurts of inspiration, an outcast in cynical contemplation. Seeking reactions by acting life a freakazoid, the free spirit could care less who’s annoyed!

Venus in Pisces gives you capacity to love freely, but the caution is that you put on “rose colored glasses” figuratively when it comes to love. You may put your love interests on a pedestal, getting caught up in the fantasy. You may fall for people who seem kinder than they turn out to be, as you can get carried away with your excitement, to the point of blinding yourself to the flaws of a love interest, only to get hurt in the end. You likely need to learn to understand boundaries, and be firm in sticking to them. Seeking pleasure in escapism, may enjoy having a glass of wine or smoke a bowl to release the pressure of the world. Men with a Pisces Venus are attracted to dreamy girls who go with the flow rather than women who challenge them. They value adaptability rather than someone stubborn. Aphrodite dreams endlessly, perceiving messages from the spirit world, peering into another reality… A sea of psychedelia stares back at her, where do all the whirlwinds lead? “How do I distinguish what I truly need?” Carried away on spending for indulgence, swept away by a new romance, she is enamored by her own brain chemistry. Lost in a blur of pure feeling, in her own world, the collective consciousness is revealing.

–Sellieve
Remember, any given planetary placement can be overruled by other factors in the chart. Most of us are contradictory people. Some of your other planets may interact with your Venus in a way that is harmonious or a clash. Feel free to ask me about it!
If you’re interested in a reading that synthesizes your Venus placement with the effects of your Mars, with the power of Pluto in your chart, along with the gifts of your Jupiter, contact me, and I am happy to write up a report about your chart! AcaiPsycheLife.tumblr.com/readings

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The Signs In A Relationship - Extended

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Aries: Aries partners are very straight forward, they don’t like playing games, psychologically speaking. When it comes to being playful in the relationship, Aries’ love it! Whether it’s board games, video games, play wrestling that ends in kissing, Aries. Has. To. Win. If they don’t win first time round I can guarantee there will be a round two. Being the first sign, a fire sign no less, debates can get heated but if it’s a debate about something stupid it’s more or less going to end up in an aggressive make out session. Their fiery personality can make them both hard to handle at times and amusingly challenging at others. They love to challenge you, they feel it’s a practical way to help you’s two bond and secure your relationship. Despite the fact that they come across quite headstrong, Aries’ are easy to get riled up which can leave them vulnerable in a way. When angry, Aries’ temper flashes wildly, without warning and is gone as quick as it came. Empathy is not their strong suit but they’ll try their very best when it’s someone they love. They might get a little uncomfortable if you cry in front of them but only because it breaks their heart to see it. Aries’ are all about passion and they love to make their partner smile and laugh. If you’re not giving them the amount of attention or affection they want they can get grouchy until you notice it. All in all, Aries lovers can be hard to handle but an amazing companion to someone who can either cool down their fire or match it.

Taurus: Taurean partners are one of the most steady partners you can get. They like a stable, easy flowing relationship and will do what they can to achieve one. They are incredibly determined and will do what they can to make their relationship as harmonious as possible. Commitment in very important to them and they are very cautious about who they give it to, I mean REALLY cautious about it. Being one of the most sensual signs of the zodiac, Taurus’ fall quickly in lust, even quicker when it’s with someone they truly love. Ruled by Venus, Taurus’ are suckers for romance, whether they show it or not. Candles, romantic dinners, massages etc. appeal to their senses and can break down their emotional barriers. Because they are so committed and ensnared in their relationship, they can get jealous and possessive quite easily. They might not realise it, but it’s because they’re so emotionally invested in their relationships that instincts kick in and they do what they can to keep what’s theirs. When upset, their rage is often compared to that of a bull, their animal. It builds up over time and when released can be lethal. Do. Not. Betray. Their. Trust. They will never let it go and they might find it difficult to trust you again.

Gemini: Gemini’s, like the other air signs desire intellectual stimulation and is quite witty in their charm. Flirting is a game to them and they always win. They can be quite extroverted in their relationship and likes to make it know that you’re together, they’ll take any opportunity to tell their loved ones about you. They can sometimes be caught between being in a good and bad mood, and further more if there is actually something wrong they’ll mostly try to avoid talking about it. Air signs generally find feelings icky and do there best to keep their distance. It’s not anything personal, it’s just one of their principles whether they’re aware of it or not. If you get onto the topic of feelings and emotions, Gems will normally try to talk their way into a different topic or try to make the situation lighter by adding humour or sarcasm, depending on the partner this could be problematic. Gemini’s get bored quite easily and need a partner that’s willing to try new things with them and can give them a constant sense of excitement of some sort. A partner who can intellectually challenge Gemini appeals to them a lot,because they fall in love with peoples minds. They can be quite cunning when it comes to getting what they want, they may not even notice it because it’s their nature but they need someone who can handle this and keep their ass in check before people get hurt. Overall, very much like Aries, Gems can be a handful but they can open doors for you and make you think about things and question yourself, leading to personal development.

Cancer: Cancer’s are naturally the mothers of the zodiac so it’s no surprise that they are one of the most nurturing partners you could have. They will make you chicken soup when your sick and fail at serenading you when you’re sad (probably because you’ll probably end up laughing). This is the sign that will put everything else on hold to care for and ensure the safety of their loved one. They are incredibly intuitive, being able to tell if a person is upset from the slightest gesture. Relationships are very important to Cancer’s and if there’s any disruption it can cause a knock on affect in other areas of their lives. They’re quite sentimental and nostalgic, the type of partners that would keep memorabilia from a first date and cherish it. Cancer’s often find themselves overwhelmed by emotions and can find it almost impossible to make an intellectual decision without letting emotions come into play. This can be problematic and dangerous to both involved in the relationship. Cancerians can be manipulative when they need to be. They are fully aware of their innocent disposition and can use it to their ability when needed. This sign can encourage emotional growth in their partner but needs someone to keep them grounded and help them snap out of it when needed.

Leo: Leo’s are very proud in their relationships and will take any opportunity they can get to show their partner off. One of the most playful signs in the zodiac, these partners guarantee an enthusiastic and spontaneous relationship, they love to surprise. Leo’s look at the world with excitement and love, and just by being in their company, they can show you the most beautiful aspects of the simplest thing. Their optimism and persistence can bring the relationship a long way. They loves to be adored, whether they admit it or not, it lies deep in their soul simply because they have an air of self belief. When alone with their partner, Leo’s are very warm hearted and affectionate. They show you amazing parts of yourself you didn’t even consider because they have an eye for things like that. They recover quickly from set backs so this can be helpful in a compromise based relationship. Leo’s are generally attracted to people with strong personalities, Sometimes Leo’s can be overbearing with their emotions which can leave their partner feeling a little tired but when with someone’s who’s personality can match theirs, they can be handled. Leo’s very rarely change their minds, once they’re set on something - that’s that, but if you can appeal to their emotional side, persuasion is possible, yet still very hard to do. They can sometimes fall victim to false praise in the desire to look good in front of others. With a partner who can match their fire and not take advantage of them, Leo’s love and energy can be harnessed in a positive way.

Virgo: Virgos are one of the most intellectual signs in the zodiac so relationships without mental stimulus won’t last very long. They’re incredibly witty and sarcastic and they use this to be playful with you. A partner who can connect with them intellectually is one that Virgo’s never get bored off. They like to pick peoples brains and to know why you like certain things. Possibly the most organised of the signs, Virgo is able to keep the relationship moving at a steady pace that suits both partners. Virgo’s have a very powerful sex drive although they tend to keep it hidden to those they’re not intimate with and like the other earth signs can be quite sensual. They can be quite tricky when it comes to feeling and emotions. Virgos don’t like feelings because they find them quite messy and often this causes them to feel torn in a relationship, making falling in love bitter sweet for them. They’re very detail oriented and can sometimes nit pick their partner. They can over analyse the relationship and get themselves into a worried state and make them uncomfortable. They don’t like to open up much because if they talk about their feelings it makes them more real after they’ve spent a big amount of time analysing them out of existence. If they open up to you, tread carefully and try not to get too much out of them, they’re opening up to you for a specific reason and if you try to get more, they’ll shut down again and they may never open up to you again. Virgo’s need someone who will connect with them intellectually, provide them with stability, give them space when they need, be there when they want to open up but not push them into it.

Libra: Probably the most idealistic signs when it comes to romantic relationships, Libra’s can sometimes expect too much rom-com scenarios in their relationships but only with the intention of deepening the bond between them and their lover. Libra’s personality was in some way created for love, it is the sign of balance, partnership and judgement. Librans strive to be fair and just in their relationship and desire harmony in their romantic affairs. Libra’s are great at negotiating and can maintain a harmonious atmosphere in the relationship. They are natural flirters but aren’t as crude about it as some of the other signs. They love the idea of love and falling into it which can sometimes leave them vulnerable to those who might play them. Emotionally, like other air signs, they like to step back from feelings apart from when it comes to romantic love. They’re emotions can get intense when dealing with love and although Librans are generally not jealous people, any sort of threat to their relationship can arouse feelings of inadequacy and insecurity.They can sometimes get selfish in their relationship, wanting it to be perfect for them. With the right partner that can roll with their ideas and can be 100% devoted/loyal to them, Libra’s can provide others with a fair, amorous relationship that never gets unromantic.

Scorpio: Scorpio’s are easily the most secretive signs in the zodiac and can be hard to get to know. In public they don’t show much affection other than hand or waist holding, but behind closed doors they can be completely different. Scorpio’s can often feel torn because even though they need an outlet, needing a partner makes Scorpio feel vulnerable and they like to see themselves as emotionally self-sufficient. Dominance and power in a big thing with this sign, they like to be in control of the situation at all times. They never wear their heart on their sleeves. When in a committed relationship they show just how passionate and erotic they are behind their enigmatic exterior. They feel things so deeply in their souls but you may never know unless they choose to let you in - if they do, you should be honoured. They will empathise with your problems internally, normally not letting you know they sometimes feel the same. They expect absolute utmost loyalty and faithfulness as they provide you with nothing less. If you betray or stray from a Scorpio, good luck getting them to trust you again. They never forget or forgive, even if they pretend they do, and it takes forever, if at all, to get their trust back. They can always see into your heart so don’t bother trying to lie to them. Scorpio’s are best know for their out lash - and rightly so! It’s in their nature to use attack as their defence, their partner needs to understand this and be patient with them. They normally lash out because they feel vulnerable on some level. With a partner that can understand their complex emotions and be patient and stable while they figure themselves out, Scorpios can be one of them most of the most compassionate and encouraging partners in the zodiac.

Sagittarius: Sagittarian’s are one of the most freedom-loving signs in the zodiac and can sometimes become uneasy when it comes to settling down. They love new things so sometimes the thought of commitment can be unappealing however, when in love Sagittarius can bring the spice of life to their partner. They love to flirt, and they’re great at it too. While Aries is passionate in their flirting and Leo is playful, Sagittarius’ are incredibly fiery, the type that will challenge you for the hell of it. Travel is a big keyword with Sagittarius’, they can get bored easily and need something (or someone) to keep them on their feet. A very independent sign, they will not take any shit from anyone and will call you out if you’re acting up. They will not tolerate time wasters. Sagittarius’ don’t enjoy thinking about emotions and much less feeling them. They feel that they’re emotions can hinder their ambition and likes to leave them untouched so don’t expect them to frequently get deep into their emotions because chances are they will change the subject on a lighter note. They tend to lie without really noticing it and can sometimes make promises they don’t keep. It’s not that they disregard them purposely, it’s just they might forget in their pursuit of even more new experiences. For this reason, their partner might need to be able to take the things they say with a pinch of salt. With a partner that can keep up the pace and adapt to Sagittarius’ ever changing interests, not drag them down or put pressure on them to commit too soon, Sagittarius’ can show them the world in a whole new light with wondrous opportunity’s.

Capricorn: Like the other earthy signs, Capricorn’s are normally quite reserved in public when with their partner but when alone (varying on how close they are) they can really let loose. They have an unusual sense of humour which can come across as dark to some. When you know them extremely well, you might get the chance to see how much of a wild card Caps can really be. This sign is one of the most reliable in the zodiac and possess incredible strength of character which can handle strong personalities. They’re often described as the “rock” in the relationship, they can keep the other partner grounded without crushing their spirit. They’re very patient when it comes to other and respect their partners wishes as they’d like to be respected in turn. Their relationships tend to last very long and they take their responsibility in the relationship seriously. They have a very cool demeanour until aroused sexually. They tend to be very lusty rather than love-y, because they’re very careful about love. Capricorns panic when they’re not in control of a situation and somewhat lacks the ability to express their emotions properly. When a Capricorn opens up to you, the things they’ll tell you will break your heart and you must treat that information as carefully as you can because it has taken a lot for the Cap to tell you. With a partner that won’t smother them but at the same time commit to the relationship as much as they do, Capricorns can provide a harmonious, steady and fruitful relationship.

Aquarius: Aquarian partners can be very eccentric and hyper when with their partner - in both private and public! This sign will seek equality in the relationship, to be together as a team. They are the sign known for change and growth, this will be the sign that can easily get their relationship to evolve at a healthy pace. This sign values companionship in their romantic relationship, they enjoy the company of those who they can sit with and question society and existence one minute and do the most random, pointless activity with the next simply because it makes them happy. Like the other air signs, Aquarians can some times be idealistic and will try to sneakily get their own way. Although they may seem detached and not very feeling, below the surface lies conflicting, chaotic emotions. For that reason they need stability, especially in a relationship. Intimacy can be awkward for them sometimes because they’re so independent and they find it hard to express the complex emotions they feel despite their verbal intelligence. However they will sit with you and listen to your woes and try to find a solution, they probably won’t delve into their own problems that often and when they do they’ll finish with “but anyway” and then change the subject so to not dwell on them. With an optimistic partner that can respect Aqua’s need for space, can listen to their opinions and not base the whole relationship off of intimacy and physical attraction, Aquarius’ can learn to express themselves and their ideas better and can give their partner a mind opening experience.

Pisces: Pisceans can be tricky when it comes to love, they fall in love with the idea of love like Libras but are wary of it like Scorpios. Incredibly intuitive, they can always tell when their partner is feeling off just by the way they come into the room. They are probably the most understanding sign in the zodiac and won’t push you into talking if you don’t want to (even if it frustrates them a little). When you do decide to talk about it, Pisces’ are excellent listeners and will provide empathy and validation for your feelings. They know how much emotions can affect people, having felt their own so very deeply and make it their priority to take care of their partners emotional needs. Like the air signs, they tend to be infatuated by intellectual stimulus as long as the other person isn’t being snobbish about it. Though they might not show it, words can hurt them a lot and they tend to take things to heart, even if they know it wasn’t intentional. This sign can be prone to guilt and can be manipulated easily enough. However, they’re just as willing to play the game and can manipulate just as well. They adapt to their surroundings a lot so their emotional state in terms of romance can be a reflection on the state of the relationship itself. They tend to drift between merging with their partner and flirting with other possibilities. With a partner who can be patient with them, understand their emotional complexity and keep them grounded whenever they get second thoughts, Pisces’ can lead their partner to inner contentment and show them that if you look hard enough there’s still good left in the world.

*CHECK YOUR VENUS/MOONSIGNS TOO

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♀Venus Signs and Seduction♀

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Aries Venus - The Burning Flame

how they seduce: When they feel a strong pull towards you, they must have you, so they will immediately try to get your attention. They are normally very open and blunt and they will tell you what they want and how they want it. They are very likely to take the lead and show you how they like it by guiding your hands or just straight-off telling you. They will take your breath away with their tremendous passion and intensity and they know how to touch and kiss you until you are begging for more.

how to seduce them: They love the thrill of the chase, so make them conquer you because they want to earn your affection. They probably like little fights under the sheets with a lot of body touching.They possess an incredible amount of energy and passion, so give them all you have and more. Heat is very important, hold them, trace your fingertips over their skin, they want to feel your warmth. Playing with their hair, running your finger through it or even pulling it a little and touching their face is a big turn-on since Aries is the ruler of the head area.

Taurus Venus - The Sensualist

how they seduce: They will make you feel so adored. They will enjoy touching you, hearing you breathe, tasting your lips and skin. They take their time because they need to capture every inch of you and every moment you have together. They just generally like to have you around them which is why they are great cuddlers and will hold you very tighly to make you feel safe. They looove spending every free minute in bed where it is warm and they are alone with you .

how to seduce them: Let them see and know you completely.They will love to know every inch of you because they are best with the things they know. Give them a lot of physical affection, they want to really feel that they are loved. They probably like some good and alluring lingerine or a nice wine since they appreciate everything that intensifies the pleasures of love. They might also enjoy kisses on the neck or dirty talk since they are the ruler of the throat.

Gemini Venus - The Siren

how they seduce: They will bewitch you with great stories and words of kindness that will make you want to know more about them. They are very charming and know exactly what to say according to the situation you are in. You will feel like their best friend because they want to tell their loved one everything they feel and all that has importance for them. They are unbelievably stormy lovers who love to spice it up, take you on adventures and try something new and they know damn well how to kiss.

how to seduce them: Whisper sweet nothings in their ear and do not be too shy to talk about what you want and how you want it. Open communication is very important for this placement. They need fun in a relationship which is why they love playing games. Tease them, try new things, role-play and kiss them in every way possible because they love this shit. Intellectual and deep conversations are extremely arousing for them, so take your time, listen to them and discuss things with them before you take it to the next level.

Cancer Venus -  The Rose

how they seduce: This sign is especially known for seducing their lovers through caring for them or protecting them. But most of all they want you to be theirs entirely, they want to be able to touch and kiss you as often as possible. Venusian Cancers can sense your feelings and are able to adapt to them. Suprisingly, they know every trick there is to win the affection of their crush: they can use every feminine/masculine wile theres is, from mother/father to beauty queen/king and sex symbol. They will not only love but admire you for the beauty you possess inside out. Once they feel comfortable around you they will want to explore the adventures of love with you but they will most likely enjoy staying in because there they will not have to share you and are not afraid to be themselves.

how to seduce them: They looooove cuddling and touching you. Hugs and every other act of physical affection means security for them and therefore is a way to show them that they are safe. Their ideal men/women are typically masculine/feminine, at least in their fantasies and they are the sign most attracted to breasts. Not only physically but also mentally they search for a deep connection, so do not be afraid to show how you feel and what you want. Feeling is immensely important to them and you have to give them time to sort out what kind of emotion they sense when they are around you. But when they know what they feel around you, they open up to the point where everything is just natural, warm and suprisingly passionate.

Leo Venus - The Femme/Homme Fatale

how they seduce: This sign knows damn well how to seduce the subject of their desire. They enjoy looking good and getting the attention of those around them. They will dress, walk and talk to impress you and their facial as well as physical expressions sparkle with sex appeal. Probably most of all, they are persistent to the core and if they want you, they will hunt you like a lion(ess). They are very energetic and wild and most likely intoxicate you with their honesty and straightforwardness. While they want sex to first and foremost be a pleasure for them, they can not stand to be anything less but the best lover you had, which is why they will want to indulge you until you are completely satisfied just to see the gleam in your eyes or the smile on your face. They like to know that you want to be exclusively with them and desire to possess you.

how to seduce them: People with Venus in Leo want to be treated like royalty, showered with affection and romantic gestures. They can only feel good in your surrounding when they are comfortable with who they are around you which is why they want to look good for you. This placement wants to experience love with burning passion and just a hint of drama which is why they usually enjoy trying out new things in the bedroom or other locations. You need to stand out from the crowd to catch the attention of this sign (speak with passion, show your unique talents,..). It’s hard for them to separate love and sex which is why they need to sense a deep-reaching understanding between you two before they take it to the next level.

Virgo Venus - The Good Girl Gone Wild

how they seduce: This sign is fiercely devoted to you and enjoys handling the trouble in your life. They are very intelligent and reliable which is why you will feel safe in their surrounding. While they may come off as shy, sweet and polite, Virgos in Venus have serious potential to be aroused by kinks and everything unusual. They pay close attention to your body language and therefore know exactly what turns you on, determined to use that knowledge to your benefit. Most of all, this sign  is always good for a suprise, they are spontaneous and curious in bed and love to learn new things and show you new sides of themselves.

how to seduce them: Although they seldom ever tell you, those born with Venus in Virgo have some very dirty or unique fantasies and love experiencing something new in their bedroom. If you take the lead and express your ideas and desires in an open manner, those fantasies can turn into reality and bring some real passion under the sheets. They might feel a little insecure about their looks but they will give you all the love they have when you show them that they are the most beautiful person on earth for you. They generally expect you to be thoughtful and to see the details. They can not be with someone who is not able to read their body or face or think of something to make them feel better when they are sad.

Libra Venus -  The Enchanter/Enchantress

how they seduce: They carry an aura of aristocracy and elegance others admire and long for from afar. They are sweet and caring and love to spoil you with kisses, flowers and other affections in any form. Their smiles are usually disarming and they are polite from their head to their feet. They want pretty much everything to be beautiful which is why they will set the mood before having sex, lighting candles or arranging the sheets. Being beautiful themselves is also very important since sensual lingerine or red lips can get them exactly what they want. They are gentle lovers who enjoy being touched softly and with meaning but can definitely roughen up when they feel a strong connection to you.

how to seduce them: Since Libras in Venus worship harmony, they can not stand people who constantly need confrontation or drama. A surrounding of peace and understanding is more than arousing for their sexual appetite and they will want to spend some time in bed with you when they feel comfortable and loved around you. Romance is what keeps them lively and happy in a relationship and they will care for you if you fulfill their fantasies fuelled by movies and books now and then.

Scorpio Venus  - The Enigma

how they seduce: Their gaze conveys power and it seems like it is looking right into your soul. They can be very intimidating and mysterious but you long to uncover and know them although they may seem cold and reserved when you first meet them. They seem to promise intensity and commitment and are deeply sensual when it comes to sexual pleasures. They want to feel everything and combine deep physical and mental understanding to a sort of ecstatic experience. A Scorpio in Venus partner makes you feel understood and desired and sweeps you off your feet with their overwhelming passion which can be sensed in a very high sex drive.

how to seduce them: Lay your soul and heart bare at their feet and show them who you really are because they have no interest in people that barely ever express their feelings or true self. They love warmth and fire and people that sparkle with energy and life and passion is one of the essential things they need for an exciting sex life. Intimacy is also very important for them and they will not like it if you are someone who kisses and tells or drags your private life into the public. Honestly, there is not much you can actually do when the connection between you two is lacking. A Scorpio Venus will always love deeply and unconditionally when they sense a certain depth, loyalty and chemistry.

Sagittarius Venus  - The Adventure

how they seduce: They come across as optimistic, idealistic and lively and they just take your breath away with their love for life and all it has to offer. They can easily slip into excessive behaviour and you start to wonder where all those life inside them comes from. They are not bound by restrictions or rules and everything is just so easy and exciting with them, no secrets or taboos or pudency. They have a certain innocence about them and in bed they just charm you with endless giggles because they love to laugh. They are very direct in their approach to love and sex, so do not expect them to play with ambiguity, it is more likely that they will straight away tell you when they want to have sex.

how to seduce them: In a relationship honesty is essential to them, they do not like to hide their feelings and thoughts and they do not want to have a romance which is based on misunderstandings. So you should better tell them what you want straight away and they will surely appreciate that. Be open-minded and adventurous because they enjoy giving their love and sex life a new direction. They are easily  bored when sex or romance get too predictable, so try new things, change locations or positions or just generally soften or roughen up. Also make them feel alive, take them to beautiful places or challenge them with a different opinion/point of view, be everything but ordinary. They want love to feel like it is light and pure joy instead of serious business.

Capricorn Venus  - The Lady/ The Gentleman

how they seduce: They provide an alomst unreal amount of stability and warmth and you just have to feel at ease in their company. They might charm you with some very traditional flirting rules, like holding the door for you or taking your jacket. They can be real charmers, because they seem aloof and considerate at the same time. Alpha-males/females is one term especially accurate when it comes to Venus in Capricorn because they just naturally like to take the lead and show you that they can care for you. Their sexuality is deep and powerful but not a thing they want to be dragged out in public. What they do in the bedroom is a silent secret between the two of you and they would never hurt your intimate connection by kissing and telling.

how to seduce them: They generally fall for people that convey power, confidence and stability as they search for comittment and long-lasting relationships. Their approach to love is very mature, so they probably will not connect with persons that are volatile or unreliable. In bed they trust in experience and consistency because they probably know how they like it best and how it feels perfect for the both of you. If you want them to do something for you or to try something new, you have to challenge them because they are eager to prove their love for you every day. In fact, Capricorn Venus is a placement that feels very deeply but may never tell you about their emotions but you can show them that you understand this by holding them or just being there for them.

Aquarius Venus  - The Rebel

how they seduce: Those born with their Venus in Aquarius may seem unapproachable and a little cold which is not necessarily less magnetic than the burning heat of an Aries or a Scorpio. They just generally are not that good with commitment and like freedom, which is why some of them may not like the idea of a relationship at all. They are, however, very experimental when it comes to their sex-life and they love to try new things, although they might be too shy to turn their fantasies into reality.

how to seduce them: They need someone who is not only able to satisfy their physical but also intellectual needs. Talking about your ideals, philosophies or mantras is very interesting to them and also kind of arousing. They like intelligent people who look behind the nature of things. They can be quite turned on by situations that are unusual, like a love-affair with a married man/woman or cyber and phone sex (any situation where no direct commitment is needed is attractive). This placement is one that has no problem separating love and sex and might has a “friends with benefit”-relationship. They need their freedom under all circumstances. If you can show them that you will not try to change them or restrict them in any way and make them feel like they are in the company of a good friend, you stand good chances of receiving their undivided love.

Pisces Venus  - The Dream

how they seduce: Venus in Pisces is gentle and soft with a dreamy gleam in their eyes and an indescribable patience and acceptance. People with this placement will love you for who you truly are and they would give up themselves to please you. Nothing gives them more joy than to give and receive love and being their partner leaves you fulfilled and strangely complete. Their fantasies often mix with reality and they often seem more like a desired dream of yours. They pay attention to the details and love physical affection, so it is not unusual that a little touch from your fingertips leaves them with a racing heart. They want physical and mental intensity and search for purity and immense feelings in bed.

how to seduce them: They love romance and fantasy and sometimes they may search for their knight on a horse or their princess in the tower. Not only a connection to reality but also a strong contact to dreams and fantasy is required if you want to understand them. They search for someone tender-hearted who holds them when they are sad but is also able to turn their romantic ideals into reality. You should not be too straight-forward but gentle, also in bed. Although they enjoy caring for you and fulfilling your pleasures, you should definitely show them that you adore and admire them for who they are. They actually enjoy to try out new things and passionate people really turn them on.

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how to make the venus signs feel special

[astro-rambles]

- Aries: Tell them you’ll stay even when they push away. Tell them you love them just the way they are and they don’t have to change for you. Give them a sense of self and freedom. Give them a place to return to at the end of the day.

- Taurus: Tell them you want a home with them. Tell them that a future with them is brighter than the sun and that you’ve never felt as secure as you do with them in your arms. Give them a sense of comfort and safety. Give them your all.

- Gemini: Tell them…wait no, shhh. Let them tell you their thoughts and feelings. Let them tell you all the beautiful things on their mind and pour their heart out through eloquent speeches. Give them a sense of curiosity and freedom to ramble. Give them your attention and listening ears.

- Cancer: Tell them they don’t have to worry about you leaving. Tell them they’re safe from anything and everything and that you’ll protect them. Give them a sense of love and loyalty. Give them your heart and soul.

- Leo: Tell them how beautiful and amazing they are. Tell them you’ve never seen a star that shined nearly as bright. Give them a sense of adoration and wonder. Give them your praise and acceptance.

- Virgo: Tell them thank you for everything they do. Tell them you’ve never met someone so reliable and dependable. Give them a sense of self worth and satisfaction. Give them your gratitude and appreciation.

- Libra: Tell them how beautiful their spirit is. Tell them how their charm and intelligence intrigues you. Give them a sense of self love and endless support. Give them your open heart and mind.

- Scorpio: Tell them you’ll never abandon them. Tell them your deepest fear is a life without them in it and that you’d cross the earth to be close to them. Give them a sense of dedication and intensity. Give them your entire being.

- Sagittarius: Tell them you want to see the world with them. Tell them when you look into their eyes…you do. Give them a sense of adventure and freedom. Give them a home away from home.

- Capricorn: Tell them you won’t betray them or use them. Tell them they can depend on someone other than themselves finally. Give them a sense of support and trust. Give them a foundation that will never crumble.

- Aquarius: Tell them you love how different and unique they are. Tell them you’ve never met anyone like them and they’ve made your world better. Give them a sense of identity and belonging. Give them your world.

- Pisces: Tell them they’re a dream come true. Tell them they make flowers bloom in the darkest of times. Give them a sense of purpose and care. Give them an escape from reality.

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when will the venus signs ask “what are we?”

[12thdominant]

Aries Venus: they won’t. they’ll probably answer that they just wanna “live in the moment” 

Taurus Venus: after 2 weeks, probably during a romantic dinner date. they’re not afraid to talk about those things

Gemini Venus: also won’t. will probably be asked the question and won’t know what to say

Cancer Venus: after 4 seconds of eye contact or one day of texting or when you laugh at their jokes

Leo Venus: they’re waiting for you to ask, but they’ll do it first and very quickly if they’re no longer bored

Virgo Venus: it depends on how much they’re invested about you. it could take one month or maybe they’ll never ask

Libra Venus: they’ll avoid this talk as much as they can and will be awkward during it. probably won’t be very clear on their intentions

Scorpio Venus: before sex. and then after sex. again after one week. and so it goes. they’ll ask whenever they feel comfortable really

Sagittarius Venus: after 8 years or marriage

Capricorn Venus: they’ll only ask when they already know your answer, no matter if its what they want to hear or not

Aquarius Venus: never. will answer “what do you mean?” if you ask them and they genuinely want you to explain 

Pisces Venus: after seeing the same person on the street twice, when you remember their name or send them 2 memes in a row…. there’s lots of reasons

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The Signs Expressing Affection

[luminatress]

*check venus signs*

Aries: takes you on adventures, challenges you, shows you off, protects you, tries hard to impress you, flirts and plays around with you, always strives to keep things exciting, seeks your attention and recognition

Taurus: shares their belongings, cooks for you, buys you things you want, invites you to concerts, museums, or for a day at the park or beach, gives physical affection, always wants to be around you

Gemini: listens to you, talks with you about anything and everything, laughs at all your jokes, plans dates and adventures with you, writes poems and writings about you, shares their deepest thoughts and ideas with you

Cancer: acts shy around you at first, looks at you like you’re a dream come true, nurtures and cares for you, brings up sentimental memories, opens up about their past to you, invites you to watch movies and shows with them, cooks for you

Leo: treats you like royalty, shows off their charm and talents when around you, encourages your self-esteem and self-expression, makes you their main focus, lets you know exactly how they feel, public displays of affection

Virgo: supports your goals to achieve, plans and organizes their future with you, checks on you frequently, cleans themselves up more around you, is the first to let you know when you’re doing wrong, works hard to keep the relationship balanced and healthy

Libra: changes their mannerisms and style to fit your aesthetic, gives you all the attention, admires your beauty and appeal, tries hard to keep their appearance up to par, acts flirty and alluring around you

Scorpio: gives you an obsessive amount of attention, does what you ask of them, publicly acts relatively normal but in private acts extremely intimate and passionate with you, expresses their passion physically, may be distant at first but watch for their smirks and gazes

Sagittarius: tries to be more humorous around you to make you laugh, surprises you with dates and gifts, is open and honest with you, always tries to keep things fun, has deep conversations with you

Capricorn: works hard for your attention, gives you anything you want that they can offer, remains devoted and loyal to you, follows your demands, expresses emotions and inner thoughts to you

Aquarius: settles down for you, adores your individuality, makes you feel special, talks to you about their feelings, supports your beliefs and opinions, shows you off on social media, has deep, intellectual conversations with you

Pisces: is vulnerable and open around you, may be shy and not the first to admit it, gives you sentimental and romantic gifts, always knows how you’re feeling, their romantic feelings towards you are pretty obvious, creates fantasies about you, listens to your every word, idealizes you

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Natal Mars Sextile Aspects

[astrolovecosmos]

Mars Sextile Jupiter: This aspect boosts confidence and belief in one’s self. People with this aspect have a huge desire to learn and like exploring philosophies and beliefs vigorously. This can be a lucky position for ambition, drive, and even sexual adventures.

Mars Sextile Saturn: Here Mars energy is being slowed by Saturn. People with this aspect are very calculated in going after a goal and tend to follow, “slow and steady wins the race”. They can have a practical and maybe old-school approach to maturity, success, and career. A good work ethic, perseverance, and endurance is usually given to those with this aspect. Watch out for overwork, becoming pessimistic towards success, and becoming judgmental or closed-minded towards other venues and ways to gain success.

Mars Sextile Uranus: Here we see a leader in ideas, a fiery rebel, and someone who is passionate about their individuality. Forwardness and confidence or a general “Mars-like” aura can be seen in the social realm.

Mars Sextile Neptune: Creativity is given a burst of energy and boldness. This aspect has been known to create artists and actors. They let their sensitive and emotional self be expressed vigorously.

Mars Sextile Pluto: A warrior on so many levels. Here they wield the power of Mars and Pluto to their advantage. Confidence helps them win and perception helps them to judge. This person can be highly power hungry, dominant-seeking, and possibly develop control issues.

Mars Sextile Ascendant: Most people express themselves very forwardly with this aspect. They have energy to burn physically and verbally. This aspect can bless someone with a lot of athletic ability.  Courage, risk, and drive are more closely related to the Ascendant.

Mars Sextile Midheaven: “Anything you can do, I can do better. I can do anything better than you.” This person is not only ambitious but they have a great chance at making it big in what they are ambitious in. There is full confidence in their life direction.

Mars Sextile North Node: Eagerness and vitality can be seen in how they move through life. Mars energy is aimed at karmic life lessons. This person taps into their essence with ease and harnesses it to overcome obstacles.

Mars Sextile Chiron: Wounds may be directed at anger, misuse of will, or some sort of aggressiveness. Healthy and non-destructive expressions of anger is important in healing wounds. Being able to put their energy towards something productive can also be needed.

Mars Sextile Juno: Increases passion in love, in fact passion is needed for this person. The joining of them and their soulmate might be a rush and short-term before getting engaged or getting intimate.

Mars Sextile Ceres: Their “nurturing” side is worn in a heated way. Their softer sides are lined with the fire of Mars. They attract others with this balance but is never one to use or mess with. They can embrace you but also burn you.

Mars Sextile Vesta: Needs a physical outlet for mental health. Energy and frustration have to be channeled or else the stress will build up and explode. They gain self authority and empowerment through personal spiritual understanding.

Mars Sextile Pallas: Watch out for burning out on activities and skills. Has a lot of drive towards talent but can go after goals too head on. Needs to learn patience and calculation. I want to mention the conjunction as they can have similarities. “Energy and passion is being charged into one’s skills and talents. Can easily get competitive here. There is a strong connection to being talented in sports or military. Physical activity comes naturally to them.”

Mars Sextile Lilith: Sexual empowerment exist in this person strongly. They might even lead the way to empowerment of all kinds. But Lilith tends to creep out in aggressive, competitive, and violent ways, if ever manifested.

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Venus Retrograde: A Higher Love

[snarkywrites]

Venus Retrograde’s shadow period began on September 3^rd, 2018 in the sign of Libra and will enter Retrograde on October 6^th, 2018 in Scorpio. How we value ourselves and what we consider to be of worth are the predominant themes of this period. Many advise against not starting any new relationships, but others just point that there should not be any commitments made because there could be some illusions regarding the person you are involved with. To me, this is more of an analytical period, like most Retrogrades. Interpersonal relationships should not have a great impact on this time because it is more of us piecing ourselves apart to see where we need to heal or change. When Venus is in Retrograde, our tolerance for love will fluctuate; we might adore or self-hate. This is where I do agree the relationship discussion because if you do not self-love, your new relationship will reflect that. Venus goes direct on November 16^th, 2018 back in the sign of Libra and will finally exit the Shadow Period on December 17^th, 2018 back in Scorpio. Take this period of time to fall in love with you first and then enter into something serious with someone else. Venus is the planet of beauty and gifts. This benefic will rarely harm you, but if you do not use that power of love to heal, how can you even grow or enter into a partnership? Below, I will discuss how Venus will impact each of the Houses/Signs this period.

Venus in the 1^st House/Scorpio: Focus on your goals and dreams. This was probably a rough time for you but now with this benefic planet going into Retrograde in your First House, you will truly experience what it means to feel love. The love of self, love of friends, partners and family will rejuvenate you. Trust in yourself and you’ll see those dreams coming true. Apply the principle of positivity and you’ll see how it will light your way.

Venus in the 2^nd House/Libra: Your finances come into view this period as you decide to put a hold on your spending habits. Virgo excels at planning and this will either make you dread the task or be super excited for this project. Consider what your financial goals will be for the next months and start to embark on your journey starting today. If your portfolio or bank account is healthy, just keep cruising and device a way to keep adding more saving power.

Venus in the 3^rd House/Virgo: Your creative juices are flowing as your House of communication is bright this period. This is the perfect time to get those projects moving and if you’re in school or work, you might even see a nice successful period if your job revolves around publishing or communications. Your words will be soothing and melodious to others, what you craft on paper will appear as a masterpiece. Put your talents to work.

Venus in the 4^th House/Leo: Home gets a nice change in this period. You will either feel compelled to spend more money on projects or do things from scratch using the tools at your disposal. Cancer excels at beautifying the Home, because you can put a touch of love onto anything. There could also be a positive change in what you consider to be your “home,” this is not limited to work, school or your personal office. Embrace the things to come for the next couple months.

Venus in the 5^th House/Cancer: A wonderful time to have fun, spend time to people, eat, be creative and enjoy the finer things in life. You might even get caught up in a whirlwind romance that will only happen in the movies. This is a time to enjoy what the world has to offer and feel at peace. Take things easily and go with the flow.

Venus in the 6^th House/Gemini: Your physical beauty might come to focus. You might put in more hours at the gym or spend more money at Sephora or even go shopping for clothes. You feel gorgeous, amazing and vibrant with this transit and if you have a significant other, you will want to show them how beautiful and radiant you are. Don’t worry, Gemini, we all know what a natural beauty and stunner you are, so make sure not to spend too much on things you do not need. In the work environment, you will find a peaceful time with co-workers which is what you need as the holiday seasons approach and the year comes to a nice close.

Venus in the 7^th House/Taurus: Partnerships might come in all shapes and forms. Friends, loved ones or new romances could be on the horizon. For those that are already with someone, you’ll see that your love can either grow or combust. Have patience, have faith and grow during this transit. Only greater and better things can come of it at the end. This is a time for abundance, so expect some steady flow of income.

Venus in the 8^th House/Aries: Like Taurus, you will experience some influx of financial help, or a lot more. Your relationship energy stabilizes after a storm from earlier this year. You will see some things in a new and clearer light. There may be moments where you want to dive away from the world to handle some necessary introspection, but Venus is filled with positivity, so do not fret.

Venus in the 9^th House/Pisces: Travel might be a thing for you this transit, but since you are a spiritual Pisces, there could be a new love for a higher being. You might throw yourself into reading, writing or philosophizing. School might take great importance for you in this transit and your mind will literally expand, tapped in with the benefic qualities of Venus and you are going to be a great star to those around you. Your mind will be highly valued and your insight and intellect as well.

Venus in the 10^th House/Aquarius: If you are already in love with work, this transit will rekindle your romance with your job. With Venus blessing your tenth, this is a nice moment to be in the spotlight, to set goals for the next six months and to reach those dreams. There will be a romanticized version of you to everyone, so have fun and look splendid.

Venus in the 11^th House/Capricorn: Love of friends will take a new meaning with this transit. There will be a new sense of appreciation for those around you that have helped you. Parties, late night events and travel will take a new theme for you. Sagittarius is not new to the traveling experience, be it physically or spiritually. Take the time to appreciate and love the world and people around you. You might even find new romance in one of your adventures.

Venus in the 12^th House/Sagittarius: The restless energy that you may feeling right now, will be satiated with Venus transiting your 12^th House. The world will take on a new outlook and you might feel the need to retreat from the everyday chaos. You will understand romance through learning about the collective, you will see and feel things through new eyes. If you are involved in charity work or helping others, you will feel inspired and dedicated. This will help you apply things to your current relationships. In this period, you will grow emotionally and spiritually.

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[moonparrot]

🌻 Mars secret 🌻

Who girls want based on their Mars signs

🕶Mars in Aries: a bad guy from classic movies. This girl’s perfect type is someone who can break the law but will protect her no matter what. Can be the leader in relationship and has a great body.

🍩Mars in Taurus: Homer Simpson. She’s looking for a family guy who can guarantee stable life, loves to chill in front of TV and will take her to romantic dates to cafes and restaurants

📻Mars in Gemini: a host of entertaining show. Her perfect type is somebody who can make her laugh and erudite enough to impress her with knowledge and keep the conversation going

🍦Mars in Cancer: nanny. She’s looking for somebody who loves kids and family life. Someone romantic and sensitive who doesn’t hide own feelings.

👑Mars in Leo: prince from Disney. She takes only best products so as for perfect type she’s looking for generous, beautiful soul who can protect her just like a real prince. Loyal and romantic

📚Mars in Virgo: sassy historic teacher. She will never be attracted to anyone whose iq is lower than her. She pays attention to details: clear shoes, new clothes, grammatically correct speech

🐶 Mars in Libra: funny friend of main character. She needs somebody she can spend a good time with. Cute, friendly, funny. Intelligent and diplomatic toward others.

🏍Mars in Scorpio: villain who you love more than the main character. She dreams about someone who looks like a bad decision: introverted, dark eyes, seems like somebody who can kill and will do it if anyone hurts her

🌏Mars in Sagittarius: a host of travelling show. She’s looking for somebody with same thoughts on life who can discuss on philosophy questions with her. Loves different cultures and has a good sense of humor.

💸Mars in Capricorn: chairman. Prestigious and rich partner is her ideal type. The person who wears expensive suits and watch, respected by everyone around and might be older than her

📡Mars in Aquarius: youtuber. Her perfect type is somebody funny who can entertain her. The person should be her best friend and understand all her weirdest ideas.

🗝Mars in Pisces: Jack from Titanic. She needs somebody like a main character from drama: loves her more than life, romantic, artistic and will understand her without saying anything. Also this person should be mysterious.

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Mars in the Composite Chart Houses

[universalstrology]

1st House: This is a powerful placement. In the first house, Mars shows that together you two are adventurous, energetic, and perhaps somewhat bossy. Combined you are active and assertive, leading you two to be able to start many projects (though maybe not finishing them) and your self expression is genuine.

2nd House: Values and possessions are important. Your energies are put towards physical items. Compromising may be difficult, especially when it comes to finances as Mars wants to serve itself. A very spur of the moment spending couple, likes to live luxuriously together.

3rd House: Communication is key! You two feel the need to communicate, which is good. However, it can be very blunt or harsh. Disagreements may be more explosive since it’s more of a say now, think later placement. You two like to socialize with others.

4th House: Mars brings out the deeper feelings and makes it easier to communicate those to each other. Since it likes to bring up more sensitive topics, it can easily create tension in the relationship. There may be confrontations regarding the home and the family.

5th House: A very fun and active couple. Nothing is taken too seriously, and a lot of energy may be spent on a more shallow level. However, with this placement, it’s easy for the other person to see the other flirting or having a sexual aura around others. This can also be a more selfish placement.

6th House: Very productive. You like to spend your time on chores and work together, or exercise together. You can both be bossy over each other regarding these areas. Since Mars is impatient, it causes couples to want to tackle tasks immediately, and projects started can be easily abandoned.

7th House: With this placement, it may be hard for you two to sacrifice yourselves for each other/the relationship. Mars is selfish, so compromising may be difficult, as negotiating is tougher than expected. A mature expression of this placement will make the two in the relationship very appealing to each other.

8th House: This is a very passionate placement. There is a lot of sexual tension and energies devoted to intimacy. Secrets run high, but may or may not be communicated. However, things just seem to happen with this placement- heavy subjects such as death, or large financial gains/losses.

9th House: You two don’t hide your opinions from each other. Your egos are filled by voicing your thoughts to each other/the world. You may seek out to travel together, and fit together better when exploring culture/language/philosophy.

10th House: You push your way to the top together, and accomplish many ordeals. Outside careers and status fulfill your egos. Your persona comes off hard-working, brave, and bold. Watch your public behavior, Mars may make you act in front of others in a way that can not be later undone. 

11th House: You constantly stand in the crowd. Giving and sharing with the community is an integral part of your relationship. You’re friendly and outgoing and like to do things with your friends together as well. You’re daring and leaders in front of strangers and are not shy about it.

12th House: The need to bicker over nothing may be common in this relationship. Aggressive feelings keep you two from sharing what you really want or need, and feelings seem to just kind of float around. Be aware and considerate of each other, and be honest. 

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Astrology and the Truth of ‘Twin Flames’

[ellie-mae-astrology]

The concept of twin flames suggests that another is our ‘perfect mirror’ in reflecting the shadow aspects of ourselves by where we want to resolve and integrate the frictional qualities and the intense push pull nature of the relationship…it’s a relationship that’s supposed to ‘awaken’ you.
Other theories suggests that twin flames are karmic souls that spilt from a single original soul and find each other when they incarnate.

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Here is the astrological deconstruction of the concept of 'Twin Flames’.

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First point to be noted - Twin Flames are NOT your perfect match…there’s a lot of confusion between Karmic, Soul Mate and Twin Flame relationships, this posts primary focus is on Twin Flames.

The description of a Twin Flame relationship is said to:
- Make you feel convinced you’re 'meant to be’ all though the intense highs and lows experienced together is clearly not healthy for either of you (yet you come back every time).
- They make you perceive everything in a different way, better or for worse.
- They come in and out of your life
- The feel like 'home’ to you
- You may feel like your opposites and indifferences is what attracts you to each other
- They make you feel transformed, for better or for worse
- Your feelings of passion and connection is equal to your level of worry of losing them or that you feel like there’s something they’re hiding
- You come into each other’s lives at the 'wrong time’ or there was something stopping you from being together
- One of you acts more as a spiritual guide for the other
- You desire them as much as you fear them

In astrology, there is only two particular connections that is experienced what’s been coined as twin flame relationships, and a third possible contender
* Neptune contacts
* Pluto contacts
* Moon contacts

Sound familiar?

These 3 planets also all rule the water signs - Pisces, Scorpio and Cancer

In the charts studied, all those who contributed their charts claiming they had met their Twin Flame had these planetary contacts within synastry and/or composite charts, primarily Neptune and/or Pluto OR, the couple had water signs on the sun/moon/venus/mars.
The reason why 'Twin Flames’ feels like such a soul connection is because of the energetic influence of these watery planets. They drown our logic and bring our hearts and soul to the surface to be exposed.
The term 'Twin Flame’ is the only way we can logically understand the powerful connection these aspects make to one another in synastry and composite.

Unfortunately, the idea that one person can be our one true relationship partner is a isn’t necessarily true.
There is often a desire (mostly in the charts of those with heavy water signs or a prominent Neptune/Pluto) to have a relationship that exists totally beyond the physical world, and that they would rather leave the physical and intertwine in the spiritual realm.

Neptune brings the all romantic high. It’s the place where we drift away in the arms of another and the whole world ceases to exist.
Pluto brings the connection by where you feel like it’s do or die, there’s no way you can separate and then the feelings build to the point of explosion and release, by where Neptune taunts is to come back for another try because we’re 'meant to be’.
The moon is far more gentle here but it’s easy to get feelings hurt.

Yes the relationship is intense.
Yes the partner may be the best thing that’s happened to you…at the time.
But there doesn’t have to be turmoil in relationships for it to be a beautiful one.

But that’s the problem - the 'Twin Flame’ relationship is ADDICTIVE (Neptune) and makes you OBSESSIVE (Pluto) and you just want to pour out all of your EMOTION (Moon).

Karmic and 'fated’ relationships do in fact exist, and some are meant to last, some are not - the purpose of these connections are to bring about a lesson by learning who we are through another (1st house to 7th house).
Twin flames in the concept of someone being your perfect mirror in the natal chart would look like:
- Everything in your chart (planets in signs) opposite one another almost exact (eg - Scorpio sun to a Taurus sun ect).

In the end, there is far more meaning beyond the concept of 'Twin Flames’.
Soul mates and karmic connections as well as fated meetings and attractions are all true and they also bring with them great lessons, however, your soul doesn’t have a single 'other half’ - in the 12th house, all souls dissolve into one, hence why soul contracts are made to interact with individuals to learn who we are while we’re here as pieces of the universe experiencing itself in different forms.

We all have a person we will meet to act as our mirror in the way we learn about ourselves - however - we will always remain ourselves.
Souls will remain intact in themselves as they interact with one another - leaning about what their own body, mind and soul feels like when experienced by another.
Though the lure of the water songs wants to bring us back to source sooner to feel an entire integration, know that you meet your partner for a reason, and that you were destined to meet one another to learn about your own soul through the contact of another.

(Will write posts soon about 'Nodal Contracts in relationships’ and 'The Vertex: My wish come true’ soon *)

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